Surprise Sharing Party… Forty to Forever

Forty to Forever Lent Journey starts in 2 days!! Come join in on the Sharing Party!! Remember we are focussing on what God/Jesus has done for us and what He would have us do for those who have less, those who are needy, those who have no voice, those who can’t stand for themselves… Join Us and Make a Difference!

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Our Goal: 200 Partiers
Total So Far: 216 Partiers

We made it!! Thank you so much to everyone who shared and participated.  We are so excited for tomorrow!!  What a marvelous group of friends we have that are going to be joining us on our journey!!  I am super duper excited to announce our winner….

NIKI ELLIIOT… Niki picks Abigail and Jennifer for the LANZ Family!!

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Book Review: Skippy Dies by Paul Murray

A view into the teenage boy's mind...
A view into the teenage boy’s mind…

This book was picked as one of our book club reads before we disbanded (sob). So i decided to read it since i had bought it.

i did not read the reviews before i read it so i dived in without expectations. And when i say “dived in”, i really mean fell in the deep end.

This was the first time i have read a book mainly about boys; teenage boys in an all boys boarding school in Ireland! So i was a little lost at the beginning (emotionally and culturally) and Paul Murray’s writing style did not help. However, once you get used to the rambling style, which i have come to accept as a reflection of how the mind of a teenage boy would function, the story does grab you.

The fact that Skippy dies within the first few pages kept me reading on, wanting to find out how, why he died. i came to enjoy the way Murray writes; the chopped-up, rather disconnected (or maybe it is connected, just weirdly) thoughts of teenagers really came through the writing. The way the story is structured also reflected the chaotic way a teenager’s life can be, flying back and forth between internal thoughts, external action, past memories and secrets; it can be hard to follow but it makes for an interesting read.

The all girls school next door certainly was fuel to the fire as what else could distract a teenage boy from his video games. The back story of the history teacher known as Howard the Coward shows us that a mind can indeed be stuck in the past by one simple incident; in a way he never stopped being a teenager. The story also shows the difference between the way a teenage girl handles a relationship and the way a teenage boy does, which of course is well used to advance the plot. The various ways people handle pain and suffering is also a major part of the story.

i love the way the book ended, even though lives were shattered as a result of Skippy’s death, there are people who will eventually pull themselves together and unlikely ‘friendships’ form, but there are those who don’t. And in the end, life still goes on.

i have read various reviews for this book before writing this and all i can say is that you either love the book or you don’t.

So dive in at your own risk!

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PS: the language used by the characters in the book is NOT for the faint-hearted and i was told that the audio version of this book is really good, it really brings out the Irish feel of the book.

Forty to Forever…

Have you noticed that new red logo on the left side of my blog?

Well, that’s the Forty to Forever logo. What is Forty to Forever?, you ask.

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Helping 40 orphans to their Forever families…

Forty to Forever was born out of a desire to help Lina, a special needs orphan grow her adoption grant and more importantly, help her find her forever family. God moved the hearts of two wonderful ladies and now they are doing more than just fundraise for Lina… they (along with other advocates and families) will be fundraising for 40 orphans, growing adoption grants and praying and hoping that this extra exposure would help the waiting children find families and help the families on their way to bring home a special needs child.

This fundraising effort is centred around the period of Lent. (For a short explanation of what is Lent, see here.) During this 40 days of Lent, everyday will feature a different child with a fundraising goal, a giveaway, a daily Lent devotion and discussion.

As we spend time reflecting on what the Lord has done for us by coming to this earth, living among us and dying for us, let us also reflect upon His Heart, upon what makes His Heart beat; His Heart beats for the lost, the poor, the widowed, the orphaned.

Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. – James 1:27

The Lord wants us to be involved in acts of kindness to the least of us, to care for those who can’t care for themselves, to help those who can’t help themselves. Just as God looked at us and had compassion, let us also have compassion as we come to know these precious children who have no voice to speak for themselves, who need families to love and care for them. Let our compassion move us to help them in practical ways.

Forty to Forever starts on Feb 13th, 2012, Wednesday. Do visit Forty to Forever to find out more and join us on this very special Lent journey as we work to help 40 precious ones. Get to know the children/families who would benefit. You can make a difference, see here. You can check out the amazing giveaways we have here. You can learn how Forty to Forever can help you in your Lent journey here.

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PS: my sweet Wesley will be featured on Day 17, Monday, March 4th.