Libraries, Reading and Daydreaming…

i was going to post more about our autumn holidays but this article caught my attention yesterday!

It is an IMPORTANT article so i’m highlighting it today. It is a fairly long article but please do read it:

Neil Gaiman: Why our future depends on libraries, reading and daydreaming | Books | theguardian.com.

Because, they tell us, everything changes when we read.

That is so true! When i read, i am lost in that world of words; that make-up world where anything can happen. And when i come out of it, i am refreshed to face our reality in the real world and sometimes even challenged to try to change it for the better in my small tiny way. Reading gives me understanding, helps me view the world from the perspective of others (the characters), teaches me empathy, guides me in evaluating what certain actions could mean. Am i exaggerating? No, it is what reading does for me. And i think that the children of today need to know that about reading. It is not boring, it is alive and we can learn so much, even from fairy tales. After all, fairy tales were the moral teachers of old.

To discover that reading per se is pleasurable. Once you learn that, you’re on the road to reading everything.

That is exactly how i felt as a child who discovered the pleasure of words on pages bound together, telling a story. And now  i do read everything! From fiction to medical reports, to news (less now as there is never good news anymore), to biography and much more.

The simplest way to make sure that we raise literate children is to teach them to read, and to show them that reading is a pleasurable activity. And that means, at its simplest, finding books that they enjoy, giving them access to those books, and letting them read them.

The Boy's and Mummy's reading pleasures in September :)
The Boy’s and Mummy’s reading pleasures in September 🙂

Another true statement. My boy reads and this Autumn holiday he has truly shown how much he loves to read. On his own accord, he picked up a series of books given to us by his Godmother (previously for her son) and started reading and saying how much he likes them and he finished all 3 books (we only have 3 in that series) in 4 days! He has also completed other books during these past three weeks. (Insert proud mummy smile here!)

i believe my son reads so much now because he has always seen mummy or daddy with a book or reading online all the time. And we have read to him since he was a tiny babe. We still do now.

i love the way Neil Gaiman talks about fiction:

Fiction can show you a different world. It can take you somewhere you’ve never been. Once you’ve visited other worlds, like those who ate fairy fruit, you can never be entirely content with the world that you grew up in. Discontent is a good thing: discontented people can modify and improve their worlds, leave them better, leave them different.

And escapist fiction is just that: fiction that opens a door, shows the sunlight outside, gives you a place to go where you are in control, are with people you want to be with(and books are real places, make no mistake about that); and more importantly, during your escape, books can also give you knowledge about the world and your predicament, give you weapons, give you armour: real things you can take back into your prison. Skills and knowledge and tools you can use to escape for real.

And i LOVE libraries! i could be in one for weeks if they allow food/drink in there – hahhaaa 😉 i love the smell of a library, old books and new books all mixed together. People quietly enjoying the written word.

Libraries…

are about education (which is not a process that finishes the day we leave school or university), about entertainment, about making safe spaces, and about access to information.

Education never stops – as long as we keep reading. i know that cos everyday i’m learning more as i read more.

A library is a place that is a repository of information and gives every citizen equal access to it.

Libraries really are the gates to the future. So it is unfortunate that, round the world, we observe local authorities seizing the opportunity to close libraries as an easy way to save money, without realising that they are stealing from the future to pay for today. They are closing the gates that should be open.

i was very much sadden when one of my favourite libraries in my home country was closed down to make way for an expressway! That library had so much character, so much history…

And i agree with him – we have obligations:

I believe we have an obligation to read for pleasure, in private and in public places. If we read for pleasure, if others see us reading, then we learn, we exercise our imaginations. We show others that reading is a good thing.

We have an obligation to support libraries. To use libraries, to encourage others to use libraries, to protest the closure of libraries. If you do not value libraries then you do not value information or culture or wisdom. You are silencing the voices of the past and you are damaging the future.

We have an obligation to read aloud to our children. To read them things they enjoy. To read to them stories we are already tired of. To do the voices, to make it interesting, and not to stop reading to them just because they learn to read to themselves. Use reading-aloud time as bonding time, as time when no phones are being checked, when the distractions of the world are put aside.

We have an obligation to use the language. To push ourselves: to find out what words mean and how to deploy them, to communicate clearly, to say what we mean. We must not to attempt to freeze language, or to pretend it is a dead thing that must be revered, but we should use it as a living thing, that flows, that borrows words, that allows meanings and pronunciations to change with time.

We all – adults and children, writers and readers – have an obligation to daydream. We have an obligation to imagine. It is easy to pretend that nobody can change anything, that we are in a world in which society is huge and the individual is less than nothing: an atom in a wall, a grain of rice in a rice field. But the truth is, individuals change their world over and over, individuals make the future, and they do it by imagining that things can be different.

Look around you: I mean it. Pause, for a moment and look around the room that you are in. I’m going to point out something so obvious that it tends to be forgotten. It’s this: that everything you can see, including the walls, was, at some point, imagined. Someone decided it was easier to sit on a chair than on the ground and imagined the chair. Someone had to imagine a way that I could talk to you in London right now without us all getting rained on.This room and the things in it, and all the other things in this building, this city, exist because, over and over and over, people imagined things.

And of course, the quote from Albert Einstein is such an amazing one!

Albert Einstein was asked once how we could make our children intelligent. His reply was both simple and wise. “If you want your children to be intelligent,” he said, “read them fairy tales. If you want them to be more intelligent, read them more fairy tales.” He understood the value of reading, and of imagining. I hope we can give our children a world in which they will read, and be read to, and imagine, and understand.

So read on! And if you are a writer, write on! And for everyone, dream on!

syc

Autumn 2013 Holidays Week 01…

We are currently on Autumn School Holidays! 3 whole weeks of no school! Nice! But what do we do with the kid?? Well, we travel all over Switzerland, which is pretty much what we do for our Spring and Autumn hols here.

So Week 01 was a take it easy week. (See Week 02 and Week 03.) We did the housework – yep, my little boy did his share of keeping the house clean and tidy 🙂 And to reward ourselves we went to see a Swiss movie, the S’Chline Gspängst, with some friends at the local cinema here in Solothurn. Something which we have not yet done in all the years of living here cos we always travel to some big city to watch a movie in English. BUT this was a Swiss story, which of course, had to be watched in Swiss German. The title translated is The Little Ghost. And it was a delightful story although i have been informed by Swiss friends that the movie only very loosely follows the book it is based on. What was wonderful was that it was shown at a little cinema which reminded me of how cinemas were when i was a kid. i tried to get a feel of it in a photo but it doesn’t quite come across as you can see below.

We were seated in the balcony.
We were seated in the balcony.

Then we spent a lazy day at home. The next day it was off to the beautiful lakeside village of Brienz for a short walk and our Grinberg treatment. We discovered this lovely new climbing structure by the lake. If you are ever in Switzerland, you have to make a stop in Brienz. Take in the amazing views and ride the steam train up the little mountain. The lakes and the mountains join to make this an amazing village to visit. We were last here when we visited the only Swiss Violin-Making School.

The boy had so much fun on this structure.
The boy had so much fun on this structure.

We were to meet the husband for dinner so we took a slow walk along the river in our town and guess what we found! An open bookcase (Offener Buchschrank). i had written about the Little Free Library about a year back and wished we had one and now we do!! The boy happily found a book of animal stories to bring home.

The bookcase is made of metal and has glass panels to protect the books.
The bookcase is made of metal and has glass panels to protect the books.

Friday was the exciting day for my boy – we took his best friend along with us and went to the Swiss Knife Valley Visitor Center in Brunnen, where the boys got to assemble their very own standard/basic Swiss knife.

Here the manager of the place was telling the boys some history.
Here the manager of the place was telling the boys some history.

It is a nice little place, not very big. There are a couple of historical films to watch. We found those very informative. The store took up a fair amount of the 3 floors. The museum is down below, not very big but again interesting, there is even a story corner where you can listen to 6 stories of how a Swiss Army Knife saved the day. And some interesting knives on display.

The boy hard at work assembling his knife at the special workstation.
The boy hard at work assembling his knife at the special workstation.

They sell a lovely gift set which i think makes a unique gift. The set consists of all the parts you need to make your own Swiss Knife. The only catch is that the person getting the gift would have to come to the Visitor Center in Brunnen to actually assemble it.

You couldn't find a happier boy that day.
You couldn’t find a happier boy that day.

Saturday was spent at the Suisse Toy Fair in Bern, which we have gone to every year since i discovered it a few years ago. It was nice and crowded as usual. Of course, my little guy headed straight for the digital games zone and we stayed there for at least an hour if not more. Then it was lunch and the boys headed to the remote control section and i went to the crafting section. i loved that they added this section a couple of years back. i had fun walking through the small but interesting section, drooling over all the tools and materials which i can’t afford 😉 Unfortunately, the little boy felt unwell after that. So we had him rest in the quiet zone (it is so thoughtful of them to create such an area), while we did a quick sweep of the rest of the fair (we were almost finished by then).

i didn't get many photos this year. So here one of the boy playing one of the new Wii games he has been waiting for. The conclusion was that it wasn't as fun as he thought it would be. Yippy! He won't be asking for that for Christmas... hahhaha ;)
i didn’t get many photos this year. So here one of the boy playing one of the new Wii games he has been waiting for. The conclusion was that it wasn’t as fun as he thought it would be. Yippy! He won’t be asking for that for Christmas… hahhaha 😉 The other photo is the group project for this year – boats. Last year’s was lego buildings of Switzerland.

i will blog about the second week soon.

syc

All from Asia #09…

Asia Population Density Map
Asia Population Density Map (Photo credit: Jeff McNeill)

This is our 9th post in our series highlighting families adopting from Asia. These families are bringing home special needs orphans who would other be passed over and left to age out of the system. These precious children often live in countries where their needs are little understood and where they will likely be discriminated against just because of these needs.

So my objective in writing these posts is to give these families a platform from which they can get support, spiritual, emotional and financial. You can help these families by encouraging them, praying for them and giving financial aid where possible.

Families who are HOME:

The Pellegrino Family are home with Gabriel and doing well! Read more here.

The Gariepy Family are home with Samuel. They had some adjustment to make once home but are now doing well. Read more here.

Families still on their adoption journey:

The Garrick Family has just returned from their court appointment in Lana’s country. They will be returning in a few weeks to bring Lana home. They are now fundraising for their travel expenses. Please do continue to support them through this last part of their adoption. They have the following fundraisers still running: She Does Justice and Buy a t-shirt. You can contribute directly to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here. UPDATE: 21 October: They have a date! October 31st is Gotcha Day! But they are still a little short on funds. Do help if you can. 6 November: They are HOME! Praise the Lord!

The Evans Family is now waiting on travel dates to go bring Hylah and Meilin home. Please do pray that they will have no more delays. They are still fundraising: selling Wooden Name Puzzles and Handmade Bracelets. You can also contribute directly to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here.

The Murdoch Family has finally received their LOA (Letter of Approval) after a very long wait. They hope to travel around Christmas time to bring Corina home. And while they wait they are still fundraising through their FB group, Crazy for Corina, where they sell lovely handmade items, just request to join and start buying. You can contribute directly to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here. UPDATE: 25 October: They have I800 Approval! Now they wait for Travel Approval from Corina’s country.

The Dismuke Family has received LOA! Now they wait for travel dates to go bring Johanna home. They are also currently working on LOI (Letter of Intent) to bring home another child. Their fundraising efforts include: AdoptTogether, Puzzle Fundraisier and Just Love Coffee Roasters. Do click through and help them meet this last bit of expenses. They also have a Lilla Rose Fundraiser (lovely hair clips) and a 31 Fundraiser. You can contribute to their adoption grant here. You can follow the family’s journey here. UPDATE: 23 October: they have I800 Approval! Likely travelling in December.

The Lewis Family are waiting on their NOC (No Objection Certificate), then they will have court and once Abby-Kate’s passport is ready they can bring her home. Do pray for a speedy visa process. They have only their travel expenses (around US$5000 -$6000) left to raise. Please do help them meet this last expense. They are hoping to travel in November. Pray also for a successful garage sale on October 25th-26th. They are also selling headbands on this FB page. You can contribute directly to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here. UPDATE: 8 October: They have NOC!! Now they wait for court and their girl’s passport! They are also processing travel visas now and then they can go bring her home! Keep praying for a smooth process. 14 October: They have an online auction running now (together with the Fraley Family). Please do take part. Lots of lovely items!

The Wetherington Family have added another child, Henry and so are now bringing home both Elliette and Henry. This means double the expenses so please do help them meet those increased expenses. They are now waiting on their I-800A Approval. They are working on new fundraisers. In the meantime, you can contribute directly to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here. UPDATE: 14 October: They have an online auction running now! Please do take part! There are some lovely items up for bids.

The Phelps Family is travelling on October 16th to go bring Naya home! They will meet her on October 21st and have a consulate appointment for October 29th. Please help them with the final bit of fundraising. You can contribute to their adoption grant here. You can follow the family’s journey here.

The Gilbert Phillips Family will be travelling on October 24th to bring Winnie (Gianna) home. Do pray for them for safe travels. Gotcha Day is October 28th. You can contribute to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here. UPDATE: 27 October: They are in country! Please continue to pray for safe travels and for Winnie to be ready to this huge life change.

The Smith Family has finished their homestudy. They are busy fundraising and here is how you can shop and help: Amazon LinkJust Love CoffeeAdoption BugYoung Living (use number 1450122) and Play World Toys. New fundraisers: Jamberry Nails and Ginger on a Mission (enter Smith family for Steve in the notes to seller). You can give directly to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here.

The Huhn Family has their homestudy completed and now are waiting on USCIS Approval. Their fundraiser at SophiaRoseCraftShop is still ongoing. You can also contribute to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here.

The Monier Family has their homestudy finished.Their fundraisers include:  their Esty shop (lovely necklaces) and Channah’s Guardian Angel’s Esty shop with lovely sandwich bags and business card holders, please put in a note at checkout that you would like 50% to go to Channah. You can also contribute directly to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here. UPDATE: 14 October: They have a Discovery Toys fundraiser going on now. Do check it out. These make wonderful Christmas presents. 18 October: They now have a Premier Jewelry Party (access code dcpd7) going on. Check it out – some lovely jewelry would make great gifts. It is an actual house party but if you want to order online, simply view the catalogue (see access code above) and contact Denise Connelly ( US Phone: 352-419-2655, dconnelly724@gmail.com). 28 October: They have a video of Channah they are holding hostage… check it out! 29 October: More updates on Channah! Another way to help!

The Steinhoff Family is leaving in 2 days, on October 11th to bring Carrington and Peyton home! They need another US$1000 to be fully funded! Please help them! You can contribute to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here.

The Campbell Family has their dossier DTC (Dossier To Country). Since they have returned from a previous adoption less than a year ago, they are busy fundraising now to bring home Darcy. Here are the links where you can shop and help: Usborne Books, Trades of Hope, Thirty-OneLilla Rose, Discovery Toys and Pasta Fundraiser. So click through and make some purchases. Their immediate need is US$2415 agency fees and US$720 for USCIS fees. You can also use the Amazon Affiliate Link on their website (it’s the Amazon search box). Contribution can also be made to their Project Hopeful account. You can contribution directly to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here. UPDATE: 11th October: Their dossier is logged into the system and they wait for LOA. 17 October: New fundraiser! Alex & Von Fundraiser – check it out! Do make sure that the Consultant is Lynne O’Leary and choose the party For Ally Kate – Angela Campbell — all proceeds will go to helping the Campbells bring their daughter home! 25 October: They have a Scentsy Fundraiser happening! Check it out! Make it’s by Melissa Lorenz for Campbell Adoption. 1 November: NEW Fundraiser! Wildtree Organic Food Products!

The Aschoff Family‘s dossier is en route to country. They were able to meet the last matching grant they were given. Praise the Lord and thanks to all who contributed. They now have a Tastefully Simple Fundraiser going on. Do help them with their fundraising and continue to pray for their process to be smooth and hassle-free. You can also contribute to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here.

The Rakoczy Family are not new to adoption. They have 3 girls who are adopted, one domestic and two international. They were on their way to another child when the Russian ban on US adoptions broke their hearts. But they didn’t give up the call. They pressed on and are now adopting Daniel from Asia. They are waiting on homestudy approval. And they have a t-shirt going on – see here for details. You can contribute to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here. UPDATE: 14 October: They have a Lego Giveaway! Join in now! And they also have a Trades of Hope Fundraiser with lovely items for sale! 16 October: Homestudy DONE! Praise the Lord!

The Lanz Family has just returned in May from adopting 2 girls and is going back for Peter (Issac). They are waiting on I-800A Approval. As Peter is a paraplegic, they will be making some significant modifications to their home and vehicle. They are working hard to meet not only adoption expenses but also these modifications. They have the following fundraisers: ApParent Fundraiser, Fair Trade Shop (use family code TOM12003), their own Esty Shop, Puzzle Fundraiser (specifically for Peter’s plane ticket), Amazon Link and Ginger On A Mission Esty Shop (mention “Peter and the Lanz Family” at checkout). You can also contribute to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here.

The Fraley Family has had their hearts broken when the files for 2 little girls they had hoped to adopt were lost. But God had another plan – He had 2 other little girls for them. So they are now on their way to bring home Autumn and Abby. Their dossier is en route and they are waiting for I-800A Approval. Their girls were not identified as siblings in the “system” so apparently there is something or other to be done in India to mark them accordingly before they can file. Do pray that this gets sorted out fast. They are planning for fundraisers at the moment so stay tuned. In the meantime, you can contribute to their adoption grant here. You can follow their journey here. UPDATE: 14 October: They have an online auction running now (together with the Fraley Family). Please do take part. Lots of lovely items!

2 families home (1 family distrubuted), 3 new families, 17 families needing your help, your support, your prayers. So do give generously. Thank you.

syc