We were in Normandy, France…

So we did not go to Singapore for the summer as we would normally do. Our annual trip to Singapore will be in November because Tobias has finished school and will be registering for National Service (military service, for those non-Singaporeans) after he gets his Swiss driving license (a process he had already started and should finish in October).

We thought we do a trip to somewhere in Europe and the husband suggested a visit to the D-day landing beaches and to visit some sights around Normandy. And that is what we did. Packed the dog and ourselves into our car and drove to Normandy.

It was a long way… made longer after we discovered how expensive the toll-roads (expressways) are. So after the first day, we took to the national roads (country roads). It takes longer, no service stops but was much more scenic.

Our first stop was the city of Orléans, its most well-known citizen is Joan of Arc. So we saw some sights that evening (see pictures below), and had take-away Chinese in our rooms (because the restaurant didn’t allow dogs 😦 ).

The next morning we headed to Caen, the big city on the Normandy coast, with a pitstop in Le Mans for lunch. We had a lovely light dinner at a pub. The next day, we set off on our tour of the D-day sights, starting at the Pegasus Bridge, onto Ranville Cementry to pay our respects to the people who gave their lives, finished at Sword Beach and Gold Beach.

Unfortunately, it was at Gold Beach that I injured my foot. There was a pothole in the street, which I didn’t see, fell, scrapped my left knee and hurt my right foot. We had to hobble back to the car and drive round to find a pharmacy. They were very nice at the pharmacy.

The next day, I stayed at the hotel with our dog while the husband and the son went to Mont Saint Michel. They said it was nice but too crowded. No pictures from me on this day besides one of the dog and I in the room.

On Day 5, my foot felt better so I decided I could go on this last day of sightseeing. We did the Overlord Museum, near Omaha Beach. Then to the beach and onto Pointe-du-Hoc. Unfortunately, we were finding France not as dog-friendly as we had hoped. No dogs on beaches even. Finally, at Omaha Beach Lexi was able to run around. She played with the waves, which was unexpected, it was so fun to watch her zooming on the beach.

We started our drive home that Saturday, with an overnight stop at Auxerre and arrived home on Sunday afternoon.

Despite the accident I had, it was a good trip. We might go back there again but maybe without Lexi because she really wasn’t allowed in many places.

Enjoy some pictures below.

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Graduated! Matura Done! Next Chapter…

I am a proud mother of a young man who has graduated from the Gynamisum in Solothurn, Switzerland. That’s pre-uni level for our family and friends in other parts of the world.

So he has breezed through 2 years of kindergarten, found his feet during 6 years in primary school, survived 2 years of secondary school and put in the hard work for his 4 years of Gymi (pre-uni); a total of 14 years of formal education!

There was a lovely graduation ceremony at the end of June. I really liked it. It was filled with speeches, music and dance. One of the more moving and inspiring speeches was by this well-known singer/poet who has Iranian heritage (I have sadly forgotten her name) and she spoke so movingly about how women in Iran have no movement in all aspects of their lives, thus have little choice in their direction in life. The ceremony’s theme was Movement – so she encouraged the graduates to take hold of their options to have choices and to move forwards in life.

Here are a few photos from that lovely ceremony, which took place in a redevelopment of an old cement factory:

Next chapter for my boy – National Service in Singapore. While he has deferment pending renunciation of citizenship, he has chosen to serve. We fully support his decision. It would be good for him to experience life in Singapore and have some time to consider what he might want to do for further studies or a career.

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Final Teen Year…

So this was a month ago, but still relevant… in some ways, it’s good to blog about it today, which is the summer solstice and the last day of Tobias’ final exams.

Yep, a month ago he turned 19 and today he finished the last of his exams for his pre-university education.

It seems like such a long time ago that we were sending him to his first day at kindergarten and yet at the same time, the years have just flashed by. Such a clichè thing to say but nevertheless it’s true.

Are there things I wish I could go back and redo or unsay? Of course. Has it been filled with heartache and tears? Some of it. But it was also filled with joy, laughter and adventures.

In a few months, he is off to serve NS (National Service) in Singapore. A whole new chapter of his life and our journey as his parents, as a family.

I wanted to link to all the previous birthday posts but decided it was too much. So I am going to link to just this one – for his 9th birthday, 10 years ago, where I also mentioned clichè and comtemplated if I would be ready for him to venture out on his own.

I don’t know if I am 100% ready but I know it’s a great next step for him to take out into the big wide world. Are you a parent whose children have flown the nest? How was it? How did you manage the complete change in lifestyle and focus? Care to share?

Here’s a few photos from Tobias’ 19th birthday:

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